When Buddhist monk Pema Chodron talks about opening yourself to annihilation, you will truly find the indestructible parts inside of yourself. The gift that the narcissist gives you is a hard and tough lesson on yourself. The narcissist gives you a matrix and an obstacle course where your very survival is at stake. It’s a deathmatch race. Make it through alive and your life will be purified. You will be able to see things for exactly what they are. You will be able to spot a narcissist early and back away slowly. You will know secret knowledge. Survive the Petty Tyrant and you will know great truth.