Poor Sods | Clarissa’s Blog: “It’s very, very difficult to know when one is projecting, especially when this has become habituatl. I remember the point when it suddenly became apparent to me that I was projecting out my competence into significant males. Then I recalled my competence and made it my own.
Unfortunately, cultural Christianity teaches people to project out various attributes into the other gender. Whereas women may lose their sense of their own authority that way, men lose their emotional lives. It can be very, very difficult for men to realize that their own emotions are their own. They can become so used to seeing them “out there”, that they have forgotten how to relate to themselves.
In a way, this is a very, very harsh regime they have unconsciously accepted. Cultural Christianity.”